Ellyvated OBM with Elly

Hi Reader, As we wrap up the year, I want to share something I don’t often talk about. I’ve always been transparent about challenges and losses. But wins? That’s a bit harder—maybe it’s cultural, but I’m working on it. Real growth comes from taking responsibility for the positives, too. What’s even harder to share are the things I struggle with—the things society says I should be able to do effortlessly. Flashback to my corporate days: At first, the workload was overwhelming. But I was quick...

Hi Reader, I was listening to the radio the other day—thank you, Alexa, for always being there (when you’re not eavesdropping 😂)—and I came across some advice that really hit home. Here are four nuggets of wisdom I needed to hear: Don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from. Stop comparing your behind-the-scenes to someone else’s highlight reel. Self-criticism counts as criticism, too—be kind to yourself. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second-best time...

Hey Reader! Today, let's talk confidence. I have a love-hate relationship with it. It feels like a necessary evil, a mythical challenge to overcome. The truth is, even the appearance of confidence can be a struggle. Our upbringing—culture, family dynamics, and environment—shapes how we show up in life. Every “no” from authority figures, societal criticism, or being part of a marginalized group takes a toll on how we develop confidence. Growing up, I was taught to fit the mold and make myself...

Hi Reader, Rainbows, sunshine, sugar, spice, and everything nice—I wish you all that and more. But let’s be real: sometimes life is a pain in the ass. I’m not one for cursing, but 2024 has felt like a battlefield—a real shura field! As we enter the final stretch of the year, I hope you’ll look back and see more vibrancy and growth than what it felt like at the moment. While growth is essential, I’d much rather have “optional growth” than be forced into opportunities—LOL. This year has been...

Hi Reader, It’s official. It’s Libra season and despite everything going on, as a Libra, I’m feeling all the energy (and the feels). This season is all about balance and stepping into our power even when we feel powerless. We can embrace the harmony around us and within ourselves despite the chaos. 🌕 The Full Moon 🥸 If It Doesn’t Break You… 🎉 Confidence & Resilience: The Summit Starts Tomorrow! ▶️ Chatting with T.Lee 🌕 The Full Moon This full moon we just had? Let’s just say, it was heavy. So...

Hi Reader, This newsletter is a bit different and maybe a trendsetter for future ones. I’m all about delivering impactful, easy-to-read content that uplifts you and reminds you you’re not alone on your journey, whatever that looks like. I want this to feel like a little pick-me-up. Longer pieces? I’m thinking those belong on my blog from now on, which you can check out here: Check Out The Blog We’re basically in Libra season! Last September was filled with little projects for me, and despite...

Hi Reader, Have you ever heard the saying, “One bad apple spoils the barrel?” While it's true in agriculture, it also holds weight in our personal and professional lives. If you're reading this, you're likely a leader—whether in the traditional sense or as a quiet, behind-the-scenes influencer. If you identify as neurodivergent or a chronic overworker, you might also lean towards being a people pleaser. If this resonates, that old saying about the bad apple might be more relevant than you...