The Confidence Conundrum: Mapping Out Your Success 🗺️


Hey Reader!

Today, let's talk confidence. I have a love-hate relationship with it. It feels like a necessary evil, a mythical challenge to overcome. The truth is, even the appearance of confidence can be a struggle.

Our upbringing—culture, family dynamics, and environment—shapes how we show up in life. Every “no” from authority figures, societal criticism, or being part of a marginalized group takes a toll on how we develop confidence.

Growing up, I was taught to fit the mold and make myself smaller. But to progress and embrace new adventures, confidence is non-negotiable.

It’s the difference between charging premium rates and settling for less—not because of skill, but because confidence is currency in both business and life.

When things feel uncertain, we gravitate toward the person who appears to know what they’re doing. Super secret? That confident delivery builds trust, even if both people are equally skilled.

So, here’s my encouragement: move with confidence, even when caution feels safer. Instead of giving in to self-doubt, invest in yourself—practice, public speaking, research, and preparation will set you apart.

Whether you lead quietly or take center stage, when you do show up, do it confidently and shine.

Things I'm Doing Scared:

  • Speaking up, even when I’m 99.99% unsure
  • Taking imperfect action
  • Embracing growth, even with unknowns
  • Sharing parts of myself that aren’t shiny

Confidence isn’t just about the big moments—it’s about showing up every day with intention.

Surround yourself with people who empower you and lift you higher. Every small step toward confidence matters.

If you'd like someone to pep you up and help you map out your next steps, let’s connect for a free clarity call. I'd love to help you uncover what’s holding you back and build a game plan to finish the year strong.

Let’s move with confidence and see where it takes us.

Stay tuned for more gold! ✨

Sincerely,

Elly

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